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Where Life Happens
Collective Stories of Apartment Living
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Apartments, those clusters of dwelling spaces stacked upon each other, are often seen as large structures of brick and mortar. But within their walls, they hold the essence of life itself. From the moment a person is born to their last breath, apartments become the backdrop for countless stories, experiences, and memories.
As property management professionals, it is our privilege to play a role in the transition of life all around us. Our everyday responsibilities help ensure the stories of life in the places we manage provide a sense of safety, joy, and reliability. Today, we delve into the heart of apartment communities, exploring the profound role they play in shaping the tapestry of human existence.
- Birth and Beginnings: Apartments often witness the beginning of life’s journey. New parents bring their newborns into the world within the cozy confines of their home, creating a nest filled with joy, sleepless nights, and the melodious cries of an infant. The walls of an apartment echo the laughter of a child taking their first steps, the clinking of baby bottles, and the warmth of a loving family.
- Friendships and Community: As individuals grow, apartments transform into social hubs. The communal spaces, be it the courtyard, recreation areas, or shared facilities, become the stage for the formation of friendships and lifelong connections. Neighbors become friends, sharing in each other’s triumphs, and offering support during challenging times. Apartment communities become a microcosm of society, fostering a sense of belonging and unity.
- Education and Growth: Apartments are not just shelters; they are educational environments. Children studying late into the night, college students navigating the complexities of newfound independence, and professionals honing their skills – apartments witness the intellectual growth of the people who reside there. The quiet hum of concentration and the occasional celebratory shouts mark the milestones achieved within these walls.
- Love and Relationships: Love blossoms in apartments – the shared meals, romantic gestures, and quiet moments of togetherness. Whether it’s a couple moving in together for the first time, or an expanding family, apartments bear witness to the evolution of love and relationships. Each room holds the echoes of whispered confessions, shared dreams, and the growth of bonds that withstand the test of time. Sometimes love fails and the walls hold space for the pain of broken hearts – slowing beating on toward healing.
- Loss and Endings: Apartments, in their silent solidarity, also bear witness to the inevitable cycle of life. The passing away of a loved one, the packing of belongings after a job change, or the decision to move on – apartments encapsulate the poignant moments of transition and farewells. They become chapters in the stories of our lives, etched in the memories of those who called them home.
Apartments are more than physical spaces; they are the silent narrators of the human experience. From the cradle to the grave, these structures capture the myriad emotions, relationships, and events that shape our existence. As we traverse the journey of life, let’s not forget to appreciate the profound role that apartments play in weaving the intricate fabric of our stories. Whether for a season or for a lifetime, life truly happens in the heart of our homes – our apartments.
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Love: Be the Difference that Makes a Difference
You will always be the second best anyone else. – Leo Buscaglia
Leo, in his book titled: Love, tells an amazing story as it relates to having love for oneself. I intend to give you the very much paraphrased version. He takes you on a visual journey back to grade school. He has you remember the anticipation you held in your little heart and mind over the art teacher coming around to your classroom. It was that time where you got to put down the lead and pick up the oily Crayola. It was time to put method, pragmatism, social order and conformity to rest so as to wake up the wild and the crazy. It was time to do the thing you love. Or, so you thought….
I Don’t Love Your Tree
His story picks up in description of the art teacher drawing a simple tree on the chalk board and instructing the class to follow suit by replicating it on the blank sheet of paper in front of them. Two lines mirrored just inches apart and headed for the top of the page. Lines that lend themselves to branches. And, a line that mimics a camel hump repeated in a circular motion starting on the right and finding itself up and around nearing the top of the page and back down to a point where it intersects with the vertical line on the left. Boom – it’s a tree. Yes – you did it. You and everyone else except for Junior.
You quite presumably know where this is going. Yes – Leo inserts ‘that guy/gal’ into the story. He calls him Junior. And, Junior produces a tree with the love and care that Michael Angelo gave in creating some of the finest art the world has ever seen. The love that a kid gives to choosing his yellow, green, orange and magenta with overtones of red and shades of grey, black and just enough brown. The love that creates the freakiest most awesome and over the top tree that art teacher, the class and the world at large has ever seen. That love that gets shunned, booed, kicked and yeah butted right out of the room. The love that gets you remarks like – I don’t love your tree…
Please Conform
Conformity kicks the teeth right out of love. It asks a maintenance technician to master electricity when plumbing is his first love. It’s asks our best maintenance supervisor to lead the troops to the top of the mountain and into war when tinkering and solving mechanical problems is his first love. It asks our best leasing people to master accounting when servicing people is his/her first love. It’s telling someone who the best way to do something is the way that you do it. Or the way the company does it. Or the way your dad used to do it. It’s the continued ripping of life right out of people the same way it was ripped out of Junior.
Punch Line
Starting today – Don’t give up your tree…
Have a non-conforming weekend,
Your, never giving up my tree, multifamily manic,
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